Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Fun and 'Final' Times

 At the end of June, Andy & all the kids went back to Arkansas.  Joseph needed about 6-8 weeks to process all his citizenship paperwork, get a passport and then get a Chinese visa to return...so that meant a lot more time apart than ever hoped!  Kelly went to the US at first to attend orientation at the University of Arkansas and then....she came back to China for 2 weeks with me!  It has been such a blessing to spend so much time with my girl before she heads off to college this fall!
We've had lots of talks and walks.  Watching
movies, going to the fake market, eating at all the favorite restaurants and finally getting to some places on the 'bucket list'!  First weekend was Chengdu to hold a panda!  There were probably ~30 pandas at the Giant Panda Research Base...including this cute little 9 month old on Kelly's lap!  She just LOVED it...he was cuddly, heavy and surprisingly his fur was not soft!  After holding him, she just couldn't stop saying "He was so cute!"  They are fun to watch in their habitats and apparently even more fun to hold!  In Chengdu we also visited Kuanzhai Ancient Street (with the most Chinese looking Starbucks we
have seen) and had famous Chengdu snacks (mapu tofu, sichuan noodles).  Chengdu also has a large population of Tibetans so we  toured the Wen Temple & Monastery (seeing funny sites like the Buddhism Counseling Center...don't know why we found that so funny but we did), took pictures of Monks (again don't know why I find this so interesting!), and wandered through the pedestrian shopping streets (complete with prayer wheels and prayer flags) surrounding our BuddhaZen hotel.  All the while covering ourselves with the protection of our Jesus and praying for the people who are so lost!
We then traveled up to Beijing the next weekend to visit Shepherd's Field.  Kelly had been there twice - 2004 on our first visit when adopting Zoe and 2008 on our second visit when adopting Abigail.  It is just such an amazing place                                
                        and the kids there are filled with so much love and hope and smiles.  At one point a team from Beijing International Christian Fellowship church was there with their guitars and we were singing worship songs and Cody (in the picture at the side, the big guy with Downs Syndrome) is holding his paper and singing at the top of his lungs (not the actual song words!)...it was definitely one of those 'thank you Jesus' moments that are so special!  We spent lots of time holding the little kids, reading books with big kids and Kelly also spent a bit of time just talking with some of the kids that couldn't be picked up but would smile and respond anytime they are talked to.  On our last night there we also experienced the worst rainstorm in Beijing in over 6 decades...as you can imagine that caused a bit of havoc at the airports as over 80,000 people were there due to flight cancellations/delays.  So we're greatly appreciating the miracle we received that our flight was only 2 hours late!  And now back in
Shanghai we are wrapping things up...before I head home for two weeks and Kelly heads back for good.  As imminent as it is, I still try not to think about it - coming back here in two weeks without her, my amazing daughter & friend - just keep moving forward and trusting that God will give each of the strength we need just when we need it.  That doesn't mean there haven't been a few tears shed (okay, yes for those that really know me, a lot of tears).  So for now...our final post for this second year in China!  Next year will be different in so many ways as we plan for it to be our final year and will be without one of the key members of our team!

Sunday, July 8, 2012

City Life

Fun things & pictures about city life in Shanghai:
  • When I ask people how long it will take to get somewhere, they always answer “Well without traffic…” and I wonder, why do you say that?   Unless I have asked you how long it will take at 3 in the morning…there is ALWAYS traffic.
  • One plus to 28 MM people is that the government employees MANY of these people to clean the streets, trim the trees, plant new flowers, mow the grass.  There are typically city workers on every major corner in the ‘downtown’ area to direct pedestrians on when it is okay to cross…so much for those crosswalk signs, don’t really need them!
  • We have seen A LOT of things on a bike…cages of chickens, cardboard & Styrofoam packed so high & wide you wonder where it came from, wicker furniture, skinned pigs (like the whole thing, just minus the skin!).  You know just your normal everyday stuff!
  • There is clearly nothing private about your laundry…because people hang it everywhere.  On their porches, at the front door of the apartment, across the sidewalk – all of it, sheets, shirts, underwear you name it, it’s hanging there!
  • As a general rule, Chinese people don’t prefer to wait in lines – much too orderly.  I’ve been told this is cultural from when there wasn’t enough food in the country and there were rations – if you didn’t push & shove to the front you might not get food.  Understand the background, sometimes I’m just trying to get on the elevator though!

There must be a class on how to maximize the load on this cart!


The view from the 31st floor of Hong Kong Plaza (where I work)

East Nanjing Rd

Apartments & Laundry - they always go together!

One of the smaller bikes of styrofoam

Dragon Boat Festival

On the 5th day of the fifth month of the Chinese calendar each year, China celebrates the Dragon Boat Festival.  This festival honors a patriot poet who was once so despaired over the state of this country back in about 220 BC that he ended his life by throwing himself into a river.  The Dragon Boat festival is celebrated to teach people about loyalty and commitment to the country/community.  It is celebrated with Dragon Boat races and eating Zongzi (glutinous rice wrapped in bamboo leaves).  Such was the celebration in Shimao last month too!  And when you are pretty much the only Westerners left in town you are strongly invited to attend and then the honored guest!  It was one of those unique cultural experiences - once you decide to just go with it, everything turns out pretty fun (or at least pretty funny!)
Being interviewed...in Chinese!

Making Zongzi

Getting ready to eat the Zongzi?

Celebration complete with dancing ladies!

The winners who have pulled away from the pack!

The spoils for the winners (more Chinese food)!

Wednesday, July 4, 2012

From the Flatlands to the Far East!


It always warms the heart to see family & friends arrive in Shanghai and we have been so blessed through May/June to have so many...finishing up with Lynda & Alyssa Stucky - straight from Kansas!  I love how with a true friend you may have only seen each other a total of 48 hours in 2 years and just exchanged emails or kept up on Facebook, but once re-united you just pick right back up where you left off!  Such was the case for Alyssa & Lindsey and Lynda & I!  As we didn't have too long for Lynda in country, we got right on it and left via the overnight train for Beijing on
their first day here!   We visited the Temple of Heaven and the Great Wall (on a very hot day!) before heading to Wang Fu Jing & crazy food street - where the pictures are great, the smells are overwhelming (not in a good way!), people are everywhere and the food - well we don't actually know because no one tasted the Starfish & Scorpion treats we bought!  We finished BJ the next morning with LOTS of walking (and sweating!) through Forbidden City, Jin Shan Park and the silk market - and then we headed off for the real purpose of the visit - Shepherds Field Children's Village.  Amazing Christian leadership, fabulous facilities (including an on-site guest house) and ~80 of the most precious special needs orphans in all of China!  I honestly don't know how people work there without constantly adopting them...we found it hard to leave without a few of them stowed in our suitcases!  Reading books with Josiah, playing games with Robert, singing songs with Kennedy, getting a kiss on the cheek from Cody, just holding Vincent, carrying Adrian & Mikey by piggy back, seeing 3 kids leave for cleft lip/palette surgery...throw in going out for lamb kabobs with their summer staff & the founder of SFCV & hear his stories and you have got an experience that both touches your heart and breaks your heart, bring you smiles and bring you tears - one that while will be mostly forgotten eventually, stays with you and changes you forever.  It is always wonderful to take our kids to a place like SFCV and see their true hearts shine - to look past the physical, mental or emotional differences and just love on & play with these precious kids (oh yes, and beg to adopt more of them!).    (For anyone that is interested in learning more about their work or even supporting some of the kids you can visit www.chinaorphans.org!)
Back in Shanghai we did some standard sight-seeing & fake market shopping before sadly taking Lynda to the airport - although I'm pretty sure Alyssa was quite happy to have the chance to stay on in Shanghai for another week and then fly home by herself - thank you Brad & Lynda!  So we wrapped up the final week with lots more eating street food, getting dresses made by 'our' seamstress Kitty, watching movies, late night runs to Starbucks, riding bikes for bubble tea...being friends & enjoying life!

Amazing doorways at the Forbidden City (with its 9,999 rooms!)

Yummy snacks anyone...because these girls aren't eating them!?!


Sitting on the glass floor of the Pearl Tower

YuYuan Gardens

Our favorite street food (outside the hospital!)

Shepherd's Field Children Village

Just a few of the amazing kids at SFCV!

Robert

Mikey

Adrian & Mikey

Very lovable Vincent

How could we only get her Chinese name...which we can't remember!

Lucas and Adriana

Josiah

Cody

Didn't capture this precious girls name either!