Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Thanksgiving - China Style!






Celebrating Thanksgiving in China is somewhat akin to celebrating Chinese New Year in Fayetteville...it's just a little hard when you're one of the only ones doing it! For Thanksgiving day, the girls had school and I had work and then we did celebrate Thanksgiving night and went out to Johnny Moos for burgers! On Friday we actually did have our official celebration - including Joseph's first official Thanksgiving as an 'almost' US citizen! The side effect of having a Chinese kitchen with an oven that doesn't even fit a cookie sheet is that literally you can't even cook a Thanksgiving dinner despite wanting to! So we had dinner catered...that's right we ordered a turkey, a ham, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, stuffing, green beans and pies! While we missed the smell of it all baking in the house - I must say it sure was nice not to fix anything! We had Joseph's previous foster family from Belgium over to celebrate..Gerard, Monique, Manon and Victor...along with two friends that have been in Shanghai the same time as us but are heading back to the States this month. Fayetteville or Shanghai...still a zillion reasons to be thankful this holiday season!
Saturday was the traditional day to decorate for Christmas! Very fun to see the excitement from all six of the 'kids' and especially Zoe, Abigail and Joseph! We had Joseph officially put the angel on top...the first time. After it fell off, then it was Abigail's turn and finally Zoe got the angel to stay! Hung our stockings on the staircase and watched 'Miracle on 34th Street'!
Sunday....18 years ago...one of the best things ever came into this world...and this weekend she became an official adult...wow how time flies! We had a wonderful day celebrating Kelly! Since we already had the big birthday barn bash back home with summer with none other than her best friend Katie Sue we opted for some smaller gifts on her birthday - a 1000 piece miniature puzzle and Phineas & Ferb Wii Game. As Megan asks...how old is the birthday girl turning - 8 or 18?!?! Her friend Missy (who sadly is headed back to Michagan at the end of this semester) came over for dinner & brought an ice cream cake...she knows us so well!





Also included a picture of our book characters...Fancy Nancy (Zoe's second year with this favorite character) and Eloise!

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

A Day Trip for Dumplings



We recently took an adventure slightly out of Shanghai on the metro to Nanxiang - the home of xiaolongbao (the yummy small steamed dumpling filled with pork!). There is the official dumpling street with numerous restaurants all with only one item on the menu! It was neat to see all their steamers out on the street, 4-6 ladies in the back whipping up the delicacy and baskets everywhere waiting to be cooked. We dined on our 4 baskets of dumplings and then headed for the Guyi Gardens. The 450 year old gardens were just beautiful and the rules before entering were some of the funniest Chinglish we've seen yet! Here are the highlights of the rules to abide by in the park:
  • Children under 1.2m or spiritual disease patients are not allowed to enter the park alone
  • Don't be barebacked, lie down at will, or wash and air clothes
  • Don't relieve the bowels or urine everywhere
  • Don't play, catch or terrify the animals like birds, crickets, cicadas
  • Embrace green beings
So clearly we left our laundry at home, went to the bathroom before entering the park and saved our napping for the metro ride home! We grabbed some cotton candy off the street (yes our standard of what we will eat and where we will eat it from have changed greatly!) and headed back to Shanghai. A very fun day out of the city!

I have also included a picture of the scary man who sits at the corner near our complex and is often available with his turtle for sale - apparently just one turtle at a time, that hangs on a stick for hours on end and even if he holds up the tail it still just looks like a poor dying turtle! Oh and I learned that he doesn't like his picture taken...good thing I don't understand being yelled to or yelled at in Chinese! Maybe he just wanted me to buy the turtle...I didn't stick around to find out!


Sacred Mountains and Yak Butter

Hi - this is Kelly. My interim trip this year took me trekking in the mountains of northern Yunnan province. Talk about amazing! We flew into the small city of Zhongdian, also known as Shangri-la. Walking down the narrow, cobblestone streets you pass little shops and open stalls selling all sorts of jewelry and things indigenous to the culture. A large square in the center of the city is filled with stalls selling food, the perfect place to go if you’re looking for an adventure. They had everything from greens to fried yak on a stick.
The first full day, we went to the Songzanlin monastery. It’s the largest monastery in Yunnan and it’s built to look like the Potala Palace in Lhasa. Inside the temples, the walls were covered with colorful paintings depicting the life of Buddha. Though the paintings were beautiful and the visitors were constantly going in and out, it had a feeling of darkness, the curtains closed behind us as we went in, the smoke and smell from the incense hung thick in the air, and the monks sat through the hall continually chanting their prayers. As we walked though, it made me sad that these people had most likely never heard of Jesus. I prayed that God would shed his light in the dark places of Yunnan. We went to the “home” of one of the high llamas, where we had the opportunity to sit and ask him questions, but I had trouble paying attention to what he was saying because I was distracted by a little boy, no more than nine years old, sitting on a rooftop near us reciting the prayers. How sad that he is essentially bound to be a monk for his life. It was eye-opening to see first hand what I have heard so much about, though New Heights, Perspectives, and such, and as my heart was broken again for people who don’t know Jesus, it reminded me that our God is a God of love that extends to all people, in all walks of life.
The second day we started into the mountains - our school group, four guides, and a group of Tibetan nomads with their horses. Our first campsite was set in a huge field in a deep valley, surrounded by mountains whose peaks were lost in the clouds with many little nomads’ huts at the base of them. The Tibetan horsemen drove the herds of random horses away from our campsite and we set up our camp. Two people to a tent and one larger dining tent. Our cook was a Tibetan man named Tenda. He was sweet, friendly, and an amazing cook. Considering we had to carry everything that was cooked with; our meals were amazing, every night it included some type of green, a soup, a bread, cooked veggies, and some form of yak meat, which isn’t near as bad as it sounds. While I lay trying to fall asleep, in the cold and on the hard ground, I could hear the horsemen singing and talking in Tibetan, and hear the horses’ bells ringing from where they were tied up near our tents.
The following morning I woke up a couple hours before everyone else, so I walked across the field to sit near the river. The time that I got to spend the three mornings alone in the mountains was my favorite part of the trip. After being in the busyness of Shanghai for so long it was cleansing, I guess, to spend sometime alone to think and pray. When we started the hike up the mountain it began to rain. The trail was hard; it was all mud, straight uphill, and slippery. I was completely exhausted by the time that we got to the top. We had planned to go further but the mountain we were on is sacred to Tibetans and the horsemen were too nervous to go to the valley on the other side. Naturally, I was completely fine to stop where we did. Once we had set up our camp I hiked with a small group over the hill to the sacred lake Abujee on the other side. We reached the top of the mountain that looked down onto the lake below. The top of the mountain was at an elevation higher than Mount Blanc in Europe; the hoesemen who had never been to the lake took off their hats and sat silently looking. When we turned back to leave it was incredible. We could see far over the mountains beyond where we started, and our campsite on a little hill below, the colorful tents made it “a pod of cheerfulness.”
The next morning we trekked out from our camp to an overview of what seemed like all of Yunnan where we sat and rested for several hours, then continued back down the mountain. We spent our time talking and singing as we hiked. When we got to our final campsite we got to wash our hair and faces in the river. With time to burn before supper, and not enough energy to do any small hikes, we got a couple games of ultimate Frisbee and wiffle ball going. We built a huge campfire and our guide/translator Sonam helped Tenda tell us his life’s story, which was pretty amazing and humorous. Then the horsemen started singing… after the horsemen sang; they expected us to sing. The singing went on for a very long time, well past 11:00. But it was fun, lots of laughs were shared, even across cultural and language barriers.
The final morning after an oatmeal breakfast with chopsticks (it takes skill!), we hiked back to town. We had a Nepalese lunch, which was so good after having yak for four days! We all took showers, despite the cold water and cold rooms at our hostel with no heat. We spent the rest of the afternoon wandering around the back roads and outskirts of the village, enjoying the sights, smells, and culture. For supper we went to Tibetan hot pot, for those of you who don’t know, it’s kind of similar to fondue. More yak and yak butter tea (tastes good but upsets your stomach later).
The trip was incredible. The places we went were beautiful. The people we met and culture we were exposed to were amazing. Interim is great because it is a time to get out of Shanghai and the routine of everyday life and experience something unknown and exciting.



Wednesday, October 26, 2011

And he's off....





That's right...Joseph decided one night last week that he was ready for walking - and so he started and hasn't stopped since! We are so thankful to Jesus that our little guy is walking now! When he first arrived over Chinese New Year in February this year he barely was cruising the furniture and really lacked confidence. With lots of practice, therapy appointments and new glasses (!!!) it has finally clicked and he is so happy with his new mobility! He loves to just walk everywhere and we just love it too!

We also celebrated Abigail with her 7th birthday! She was simply so excited to have people say 'happy birthday' to her...I think that was the best gift of all! It was a wonderful day of celebration with Dad, Joseph, Grandma & Grandpa for lunch, a special birthday snack of Dunkin Donuts at school, some very fun gifts (playing cards - Abigail's favorite!, coloring pencils & books and a new umbrella & lunch box), and dinner at one of her favorite restaurants (she calls it 'the one with the round meat', we call it Little Sheep hot pot). One of the oldest kids in her class now...but still the smallest!

Starfish Foster Home






For my high school interim trip, I (Lindsey) went to Xi'An to serve in the Starfish Foster home and learn a lot about Xi'An history & culture. It was a wonderful experience and I would go back in the blink of an eye! I worked with this one boy named Malin, he was the sweetest thing! He and I had a connection from the moment we met! On the first day, Malin walked up to me and asked for me to pick him up, not wanting to say no, I did. From then on we were always together when I was there. We bonded over the next few days and Tuesday afternoon when we were leaving, all the kids were going down for a nap. So Malin and I left the dining hall where we were coloring and went to find his Ayi. She was in his room and told me to put him down on the floor, when I did, he began to cry, so I quickly left so I wouldn't cause a problem. I went to the front of the Orphanage and got on the bus. Three minutes later, Malin came to the door, saw me on the bus and started coming outside. I quickly ran off and took him back to his Ayi. As I was leaving for the second time, I heard footsteps running down the hall, and turned around to see his smiling face with tears in his eyes. It was the hardest thing to leave! On Wednesday, I found out that he is going to be adopted in December which makes me so happy! I had a wonderful trip and really want to go back!

A few things I got from the trip:

-A wonderful experience serving in an Orphanage for a week

-A beautiful new friend

-Knowledge of the history of Xi'An

-Great relationships with my group leaders and members.

-Oh, and immunity to chickenpox ;)

Blessings from Buffalo!






Once again it was a wonderful reunion at the airport as Andy's parents arrived for two fabulous weeks in China!! They didn't have much time for jet lag after arriving Wednesday night and leaving for Beijing on Friday with Andy and Kelly. Andy was headed there for the Beijing Marathon (yes the full one this time!)...it was good - running by lots of famous sites, lots of people and running with cramps for 12 miles (I ask again why people do this?!?!). Kelly was the tour guide! Forbidden City, Tiananmen Square, the Great Wall, the Olympic village...the hot spots for a weekend in BJ. Back in Shanghai there was the sightseeing (Zhujiajiao water village, Century Park, Pearl Tower, the Bund at night), lots of eating out (Little Sheep hot pot, Johnny Moos, Sherpas order out) and shopping at the fake market (although US border control was quite interested in the Uggs that were being brought back for the grand-daughters and kind enough not to confiscate them!). The best times were had simply being together - going for walks, having lunch at school with the little girls, trying out bubble tea, watching our latest favorite TV series "White Collar", and playing cards. How good it is to be with family, to share our world with them and spend time with the ones you love! Dropping them off at the airport is another reminder of what we truly miss about back home!