Wednesday, January 25, 2012

An Assault on the Senses






Sometimes a trip to the JinQaio Carrefour just begs you to take pictures and share of the adventure that we call grocery shopping! Now Carrefour is actually mild compared to the local grocery stores and also the wet markets where the native Shanghai people won't even take foreigners because they can't handle it! There are two sections of Carrefour that we majorly try to avoid...meat and dried fish...both as the title of this post suggests, an assault on the senses. As for meat there is really fresh - as in still alive, swimming in tanks, crawling on ice, jumping or slithering around; there is fresh - being cut off the slab and thrown into grocery carts, bare hands, no wrapping, lying fresh & bloody on ice; and then there is frozen - every body part included, legs sticking in the air! Last week must have been some kind of special on frozen as there were literally dozens of people in the frozen meat section (thus the reason it drew my attention!) What was most interesting is that in order to get the piece they really wanted everyone took the frozen meat and kept throwing it on the ground to break it up. So....you want me to buy meat first that everyone has touched with their bare hands and then second that has been thrown on the ground in the store where everyone walks with who knows what on their shoes?!?! Wouldn't surprise me if we had some people become vegetarians after this adventure!

Next comes the dried fish section - sometimes unavoidable as it stands between the fresh fruits & veggies and the bread! Let me just say as far as meat & fish go, apparently you can dry & preserve just about anything and any part of anything! This section isn't as much the sight but more the smell that is overwhelming! Tough to pick out french bread with the strong smell of dried fish floating in the air! Of course the time we saw a little boy (with his father's help) peeing in a coffee cup right by the open bin of dried shrimp didn't help either!

And I wonder why we order out 3-4 nights per week?!?!

Monday, January 23, 2012

Bringing in the Year of the Dragon



Xin nian kuai le! Happy New Year! This week all of China celebrated with fireworks and firecrackers to bring in the year of the dragon and our second CNY here in Shanghai did not disappoint! Noise (as Joseph calls it) started about 6pm and came to full crescendo (think war zone level!) from about 11:30pm to 1am!

Again fireworks like we would see for an entire show back at the 4th of July shooting off on every street, in our lane, and right on our sidewalk. Zoe and Abigail slept through it all - unbelievable! Joseph on the other hand cried at each noise early in the evening and then decided to manage by needing to see where all the noises were coming from - so we ran from window to window, upstairs to downstairs and looked for all the pretty colors...until he finally crashed at 1am! Andy and the older girls did what any typical American family would do...set off our small assortment of firecrackers, played some frisbee in the streets and wandered around in awe!

Chinese New Year is the most significant holiday in Chinese tradition and the year of the dragon is the most auspicious year of them all (the dragon is the only mythical animal of the 12 zodiacs). Births in China are expected to go up 20% this year as parents want their children to be dragons - still a one child policy but lots of people to have babies! Apparently hospital beds are already booked out through August for the maternity ward in the larger cities! Now that is planning ahead! Oh and another tidbit...for each zodiac sign, whenever it is your year, tradition is that you wear red every single day for the entire year (that's gotta be a lot of red underwear being sold here!)

With Joseph still not finalized and our desire to not join the hundred million people traveling in China, we decided to stay home for the week long holiday and it has been wonderful! Playing games, reading books, watching movies, relaxing and having fun...no where to go and not much to do (since almost every place is closed!)...something I think we all needed! Reality will be tough to take next week!

Thursday, January 19, 2012

7 Days Too Many




7 days too many...this is our opinion of our recent week long adventure with Zoe at the Shanghai United Family Hospital! When we returned to Shanghai this summer both Andy & I agreed that we needed to be better prepared for an emergency here in Shanghai (maybe having an emergency with Joseph at the Detroit Airport was our stimulus!)...we thought we'd just do some research, collect the right business cards to give to a taxi driver, have our stash of cash for admissions and we'd be done. Guess God had other plans for our learning! She started with the stomach flu and somehow ended with a nasty multi-resistant urinary tract infection... thankfully now each are completely gone and we are headed home today!

A couple of interesting things about hospitals & this adventure....
* Even though the hospital is in Shanghai, it is about 60 minutes from our house. This has made one of us always being here quite a logistics challenge with one driver, work, school and after school activities. For those wondering, no I did not put it all on a spreadsheet to figure it out!
* Zoe was in the international wing of the hospital...I definitely would not say she was roughing it from her amenities - large private room, pull out futon for us, flat screen TV, DVD player, free Wi-Fi. What she liked most though was the bed that adjusted!
* In China before even admitting you to the hospital, even if you have insurance, you need to pay! So for Zoe they assumed a 3 day stay (at the time we laughed and assured her they didn't know what they were talking about!) and charged us $3000USD...thank goodness they take credit cards!
* Overall the care was superb! We also kept checking each step of the way with our wonderful pediatrician friend Lynn Morrison...and the treatment, changes & decisions all followed exactly what we would do in the States.
* One of the sweetest things was the envelope that Zoe got from her class filled with get well cards. Here are some of my favorite comments (remember these are from 8 year olds!)...
- Please come back to school before you leave China
- When you read this card does it make you feel better?
- Too bad you are sick you are missing out on great stuff - today we are learning multiplication!
- Get well soon - life is different without you!
- I hope you get well soon. Speaking of getting well, what sickness do you have - virus, pnemonia, cancer?
- I don't know you that much but I will pray for you to get well soon!

What did we learn besides the ins & outs of the ER services here in Shanghai...only what we already knew...how wonderful and amazing the network of family & friends is that we have back home. Despite the distance, we still were completely covered in prayer and are truly blessed by all of you!